You fall in love with personality but you live with character.
Now 'earmarks' are worthy causes - via Huffpo:
What you likely have heard about is that this bill does include earmarks. Now, let me be clear: Done right, earmarks have given legislators the opportunity to direct federal money to worthy projects that benefit people in their districts, and that's why I've opposed their outright elimination.
I'm sure there is good definition of 'worthy' that will require all taxpayers to fund. I'm sure if you dig, you will find an earmark for Joy Behar's botox, if there ever was a worth cause, she is it!